It is wonderful....forget past experiences with ejaculations, forget anout your cock getting hatd, for either men or women...just lie back feel the penetration, feel your sphincter being dilated, then the warm throbbing deep inside you, the rubbing against the prostate...feel your orgasm swelling and surging inside you, not any longer through the penis...you start to orgasm like a woman. Once you have done this it becomes the only way....you dont need erectile, ejaculatory sex any more.